To protect your peace, your motivation and dedication should be your foremost concern. Men without ambition will steal yours, men without goals will impact your drive, and the energy of mediocre men will transfer. 

A common theme online today is the pressure to conform — the idea that we must all share the same beliefs, with differing opinions always met with others' views pushed as gospel. My ideal love does not have to be yours. Each of us is entitled to our own dreams of romance. I am free to seek out my own desires, and you are free to find the kind of relationship dynamic you deem perfect in your eyes.