MIND MUSINGS

I realised I was keeping my old wounds fresh for a trial that would never come — that was stealing my life more than my trauma ever did. 

The current world of social media has made us believe that having a differing opinion makes you a "bad person". Our life is being stolen by our screens with the average person spending 7-11 years of their life on their phone.

A common theme online today is the pressure to conform — the idea that we must all share the same beliefs, with differing opinions always met with others' views pushed as gospel. My ideal love does not have to be yours. Each of us is entitled to our own dreams of romance. I am free to seek out my own desires, and you are free to find the kind of relationship dynamic you deem perfect in your eyes. 

Instead of seeking external validation, I found it within. I sat with my thoughts, devoting time to deep introspection and mastering self-concept clarity. The strongest people are deeply sensitive — courageous enough to feel fully, accept their emotions, and move through them consciously. To heal, to move on, is to let every feeling exist fully and then letting them go. 

To anyone who needs to hear this right now, anyone who currently feels as lost as I once did, anyone searching for the "correct" reaction to friendship breakup and betrayal, this video is for you.

Discipline is nothing but the highest level of self-respect. You don’t deserve the results if you won’t work for them. However, I think that’s where some get discouraged—not because the dream is unattainable, but because discipline has been miscast as deprivation. To float through life is easy, but if you don’t sacrifice for what you want, what you want will become the sacrifice. 

So, I’ll never be intimidated by a woman with no class. After all, you are only as beautiful as how you treat others. As Audrey Hepburn said, Elegance is the only beauty that ever fades.

I create and I style, to not merely dress, but inspire confidence and authenticity. We each have a different voice, an original opinion, and a unique perspective. Fashion is a form of self expression, a language beyond words, and our personal style is built from our own originality. Discovering your true self, and carrying that identity through everything you do, create, and wear will transform your reality. 

I am proud of the person I have become but, no one is perfect. There's always room to grow. I am determined to make 2026 my year and if you are too, I hope this year is the year you change your life in all of the way's you've always secretly wanted to.

Winter Solstice begins on December 21st, and continues through until the 1st of January. The 12 nights between these dates are a sacred pause, a mystical bridge between what has been and what is to come.

Instead of acting out of impulse, anger, and hurt, take a minute, breath and remind yourself: "Sometimes things fall apart, so that better things can fall together" - Marilyn Monroe,"Karma never misses a soul", "A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes" - Winston Chruchill

Chic is subjective, different for each of us but I believe it goes beyond a specific style of bag, or a pair of sheer tights. It's the essence and energy that each piece carries and the way it not only transforms our look but elevates our confidence.

I’ll forever mourn the person I could have been if I hadn’t gone through what I did at such a young age. But, I also know I wouldn’t be the same person, with the same heart, the same compassion, the same understanding, and the same drive and motivation if I hadn’t.

Comparison makes you blind to your own progress. There is enough money, enough jobs, enough attention, and whatever is meant for you will find you. The one thing there is only one of however, is you. No matter how hard anyone tries, no one can be you. So, be you!

I refuse to become the person someone has attempted to paint me out as. So yes, I stay silent. I won’t broadcast our disagreement to the world, and I won’t let a moment of hurt turn me into someone I am not.

When we socialise, converse, and have shared experiences - our brain waves synchronise. The neurones in the brains of two people connecting can fire in corresponding spots, causing them to have matching brain patterns. Because of this, you are likely to pick up on another persons habits, and characteristics, if you spend a lot of time with them.

There's an epidemic of insecure people in this world who spend their days trying to dim your light to feel a flicker of their own. Low self-esteem, insecurity, and projection is almost always the reason why anyone ever feels the need to put another person down. Someone who is truly content within themselves has no need to belittle others to feel worthy as their joy doesn’t depend on comparison.

It's easy to radiate good energy when life is gentle; the real test comes when it isn't. Once you master control over your emotions, you reclaim your power. Choose grace over impulse, kindness over chaos. The goal isn’t to suppress your emotions, but to respond with intention rather than reaction. Be so grounded in your self-control that others are left in awe of your calm.

We live in a world that is constantly throwing trends, products, and personalities in our faces. We’re all so easily influenced that we’ve lost our individuality. Social media, once a platform to inspire and has quickly evolved into a space of mimicry where authenticity feels like a sin. There’s a beauty in being your own individual person. If we were all the same the world would be such a boring place.