I’ll Never Be Intimidated by A Woman With No Class

I’ll never be intimidated by a woman with no class. Having “class” has nothing to do with the amount of money in your bank account, the clothes you wear, or the lifestyle you live. It has everything to do however with the way you carry yourself, and how you treat others. 

So, I’ll never be intimidated by a woman with no class. After all, you are only as beautiful as how you treat others. As Audrey Hepburn said, Elegance is the only beauty that ever fades.

Hurt people, hurt people and while I strongly believe that pain is never an excuse for someone’s actions I think it can serve as an explanation. Anyone who is truly happy within themselves does not feel the need to create chaos in another's life. 

It’s infuriating, isn’t it? Being hurt so deeply by someone, only to watch them parade around as a different person entirely, untouched by the damage they left behind. A person others would never imagine capable of causing such harm. I often see "I'll never be intimidated by a woman with no class” on my TikTok feed, although it’s more often than not accompanied by “what is she going to do, talk shit with her trashy friends”. And now you’re mirroring the thing you once condemned. 

A woman so confident in her being, who carries herself with elegance and grace knows that making snarky comments, engaging in gossip, posting indirects, and trying to prove she’s better than another are classless acts. Kind is the most beautiful thing a woman can be, not exclusively to her friends but to anyone she crosses paths with. It takes a strong woman to stay kind and calm in the face of behaviour that lacks decorum but that is a woman I aspire to be. 

Never will you hear me pick apart another woman’s looks, but the way you act, that I will illuminate. Neuroplasticity is proof that who you once were is not who you must remain. I’ll challenge your low-class behaviour because it’s something you can change. In a world where you can be anything, choose to be kind. 

I’ve shared with you this piece of advice before in Too Chic To Care, but once again I'll reiterate; have compassion for those who’ve hurt you, not superiority but understanding. Recognise that their words and actions come from a place of pain, not power. 

I don’t need to be liked by people who don’t even like themselves. 

Beauty standards are constantly changing, what doesn’t go out of style however is a kind heart. In a world that is so fueled by hate, ‘cancel culture’, and constant comparison which unfortunately leads to insecurity, be kind. Your beauty shows in how you treat others. 

You don’t realise the impact your words can have. Choose them wisely. After all, do you really want to be the reason someone doesn’t eat today, cries themself to sleep, or uses physical pain as a distraction from their emotional turmoil? Kindness, or simply staying quiet costs nothing. 

Love, Innasya x