A common theme online today is the pressure to conform — the idea that we must all share the same beliefs, with differing opinions always met with others' views pushed as gospel. My ideal love does not have to be yours. Each of us is entitled to our own dreams of romance. I am free to seek out my own desires, and you are free to find the kind of relationship dynamic you deem perfect in your eyes. 

Instead of seeking external validation, I found it within. I sat with my thoughts, devoting time to deep introspection and mastering self-concept clarity. The strongest people are deeply sensitive — courageous enough to feel fully, accept their emotions, and move through them consciously. To heal, to move on, is to let every feeling exist fully and then letting them go. 

I am proud of the person I have become but, no one is perfect. There's always room to grow. I am determined to make 2026 my year and if you are too, I hope this year is the year you change your life in all of the way's you've always secretly wanted to.

Instead of acting out of impulse, anger, and hurt, take a minute, breath and remind yourself: "Sometimes things fall apart, so that better things can fall together" - Marilyn Monroe,"Karma never misses a soul", "A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes" - Winston Chruchill

Comparison makes you blind to your own progress. There is enough money, enough jobs, enough attention, and whatever is meant for you will find you. The one thing there is only one of however, is you. No matter how hard anyone tries, no one can be you. So, be you!

It's easy to radiate good energy when life is gentle; the real test comes when it isn't. Once you master control over your emotions, you reclaim your power. Choose grace over impulse, kindness over chaos. The goal isn’t to suppress your emotions, but to respond with intention rather than reaction. Be so grounded in your self-control that others are left in awe of your calm.