I realised I was keeping my old wounds fresh for a trial that would never come — that was stealing my life more than my trauma ever did. 

Dressing well is a form of good manners. As the season of falling leaves and hot chocolate approaches, it comes time to turn our attention to our winter wardrobes. Shopping impulsively has no place here. The goal is a wardrobe meticulously curated to embody our personal style.  Cold weather is no excuse for poor dressing. As Vivienne Westwood said, you have a more interesting life if you wear impressive clothes. 

A common theme online today is the pressure to conform — the idea that we must all share the same beliefs, with differing opinions always met with others' views pushed as gospel. My ideal love does not have to be yours. Each of us is entitled to our own dreams of romance. I am free to seek out my own desires, and you are free to find the kind of relationship dynamic you deem perfect in your eyes. 

Instead of seeking external validation, I found it within. I sat with my thoughts, devoting time to deep introspection and mastering self-concept clarity. The strongest people are deeply sensitive — courageous enough to feel fully, accept their emotions, and move through them consciously. To heal, to move on, is to let every feeling exist fully and then letting them go. 

To anyone who needs to hear this right now, anyone who currently feels as lost as I once did, anyone searching for the "correct" reaction to friendship breakup and betrayal, this video is for you.